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Advanced Online Attachment Course - Grow Your Security

It's Not Me It's My Amygdala:  Advanced Course Connecting the Science(s) of the Mind with Interpersonal Relationships

We  want to help each of you become a little more secure, not as a feeling but as a fact. If you are interested in learning how to outsmart your biology and transform into the most relational and confident version of you, then you are our people.  Our audience is intentionally wide- it includes everyone from seasoned therapists, students in the field, other professionals in other fields (medicine, law, education, business, among others) those injured by early relationships, and those life-long learners interested in staying abreast and helping make the world a little more secure.

What People are saying

Blew me away!

January 28, 2020 6:32 am by drjillt from United States

I am a clinical psychologist with 18 years experience. I just listened to your dismissive/avoidance podcast, and was extremely impressed! You unpack the theories with such skill, lightness, and fun. Your ability to articulate the client’s perspective was excellent. Thank you for sharing your talents and gifts with us! A fan in KC

A highly recommended podcast

January 7, 2020 11:52 am by gluttsnappa from Sweden

Thank you for such inspirational and in-depth information in this exciting research/therapy area. I am grateful that I get access to your work and I feel like your podcasts give me new things to reflect upon. Thank you so much for sharing and keep your podcasts coming!

Narcissistic episode

January 7, 2020 1:40 am by # alone at xmas from United Kingdom

Okay this was great to hear BUT can you link this to attachment? Or not ? How about the other layers of fractured self I feel that there are elements missing in this

Everyone needs to know

January 3, 2020 7:16 am by anna100OoOo from United States

So often we have a false sense of happiness and happily ever after and this podcast helps shed light on unhealthy behavior. We live in a digital world that teaches us what is normal and happy but behind the scene may not always be so cheery and we need lessons here to help learn and navigate difficult relationship.

Thank you! So much great information !

January 2, 2020 12:00 pm by Taylor63toys from United States

I am a counselor, mostly with children. However, I have learned so much about adults, polyvagal theory, attachment myself and narcissism. So appreciate your work and your guests!

Narcissistic relationships compassion

December 29, 2019 12:54 pm by Absttar from Australia

Thank you for your compassion and physiological understanding of narcissism and relationships and what to do. I had so much resonance and recognised how I am narcissistic in some ways too. What stood out is the grounding and anchoring you both have in regards to the topic, and it translates via the podcast into a grounding for the listener- (rather than fear based energy). Thanks again

Love this podcast

December 26, 2019 2:48 pm by Dunmore2013 from Ireland

For me this is the best podcast there is when it comes to anything to do with understanding ourselves and how we relate to each other on deeper levels. I share this a lot with other healthcare professionals and clients and always trust that the standard is very high and the content up to date / accessible / delivered in a really lovely way.

So informative and fun!

December 19, 2019 10:42 pm by Hannah9098753578 from United States

I’m hooked on this podcast! They’re so educational yet also captivating (not dry). They have tons of credible guest speakers, and there’s always new information. Well worth a listen!


December 18, 2019 9:26 pm by naja_aah from Kenya

Thank u forgiving me a chance to learn myself and behaviour with the knowledge u put out,u guys are doing a noble service by providing these informations

Really helpful

December 8, 2019 8:51 pm by Beejoon from United States

Thank you so much for the information. I currently work with homeless women as a therapist and love love my job. Would love to hear more about best practices to use when working with homeless population and how to advocate for them..., and more, if you could do a episode on that topic I’d would be very grateful:$

Nerd out on neuro

November 27, 2019 8:14 pm by sarado8910 from United States

Love this podcast and have listened to just about every episode; many of which I’ve played in though multiple times. If you’re curious about anything related to human experience, this is an insightful and engaging podcast. Best of 2019

Informative and Practical

November 25, 2019 4:02 am by Emer Evergreen from Ireland

I love this podcast. It discusses the everyday issues we are confronted with in a humours and practical way, while offering suggestions on how we can make different more positive choices. All done without dumbing down on the scientific content.

Have Learned So Much!

November 22, 2019 1:22 pm by McVolant from Canada

I love the topics and am always waiting for the next podcast to drop! Keep up the wonderful work!

Most informative trauma and attachment series in any media type

November 16, 2019 8:35 pm by JJHam from United States

I stumbled upon this podcast searching for more information about neurobiology, trauma, attachment and am blessed with an embarrassment of riches. The hosts convey detailed information and theory in plain speak so even a physician can understand and digest - personally and professionally. Keep up the outstanding work!

best i’ve found

November 6, 2019 12:38 am by maxysun from United States

Got started on episode 34 with a breakdown on how to treat disorganized attachment in adulthood. It’s been difficult to find a podcast with the same level of scientific backing, credible interviews, and in-depth exploration of the intersection of currently relevant psychotherapy themes: polyvagal theory, attachment theory, ACES, etc. Also, the hosts (Sue Marriott being my personal fave!) are down-to-earth and inviting. Please continue to put out material! I’d especially appreciate anything with client-focused breakdowns on how to rewire neuroception for those with disorganized attachment.

Keep Up the Great Work

November 3, 2019 10:27 am by Andrea_9111 from Canada

Easily my favourite podcast. The science driven data and discussions are what others lack. Love the neuroscience!


October 27, 2019 6:56 am by Waynengwrites from Canada

I geek out on clnically-oriented podcasts, and these women seem to find the perfect balance of being accessible yet highly instructive to therapists. They don't just shout into the mic or pontificate. They are humble, grateful life-long learners who find joy in sharing cutting edge knowledge and high-end guests. Suddenly long drives have become most bearable. Their segments on Crittenden's DMM were a real challenge, but worth the revelations. Thank you so much.

Thank you Sue and Ann

October 23, 2019 12:40 am by madamezammu from Australia

If you need to be reminded that there are exceptional humans in the world doing generous things with their talents and spreading compassion then listen to this Podcast. If you want to become a better human yourself then listen to this podcast. If you want to feel like you are earning an honorary psychology degree by listening to an entertaining, fascinating and addictive podcast then give this a listen. If you have any interpersonal relationships that you care about making the best they can be, or you would like some relationships, then you will be amazed what you can learn.

Great Podcast!

October 15, 2019 8:31 am by JoshBarnes208 from United States

As a new clinical social worker, I really appreciate this resource. I just listened to the episode with Dr. David Elliott and I will be purchasing his book. I learned two pages of notes worth of new stuff that I can directly apply with multiple current clients. Thank you again for this resource!

So relevant and timely!

October 4, 2019 10:42 am by rebel43 from United States

So glad you are back!!!! I loved this new episode on narcissism! It was timely, and helped me deal with a situation at work where I was able to identify my own narcissistic injury and to change my response to place the other person’s insecurity back with them and to not take on something that wasn’t mine. I initially felt terrible about myself, but was able to hold on to my sovereign self and not compromise feeling worthy by believing something someone else said to make themself feel superior. It was a situation where neither of us needed to feel diminished.

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Therapist Uncensored Attachment Explained Bundle

Now, check out these episodes to learn more about each attachment style.

TU59: Dismissing/Avoidant Styles of Relating in Adulthood,

This episode is especially for those “talk to the hand” kind of people, or those that love them.  You know, the uber-independent, rational, left-brain, excel spreadsheet person that sees others emotions as needy and weak. Co-hosts Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP and Ann Kelley PhD translate decades of research and clinical experience into easy to understand usable points to help you improve your understanding of why people appear so irrational at times.

TU60: Preoccupation in Relationships – Signs and Solutions to Anxious Attachment

Improve your sense of security and communicate more effectively with those you love by understand preoccupied/anxious attachment.  Learn to manage your body’s reactivity in relationships by learning about this attachment tendency and how it relates to unconscious regulation of the brain. Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP and Ann Kelley PhD discuss and make the information practical for real world use.

TU61: It’s Not Crazy, It’s a Solution to an Unsolvable Problem – Disorganized Attachment

The elusive 4th category of adult attachment, disorganization, and how this state of mind relates to everyone, no matter your trauma history.   Dropping into overwhelm and disorganization happens to everyone at times, and some more than others. When we have been exposed to serious danger, unresolved fright or major loss in such a way that it interferes with healthy coping patterns, we are left to our own to manage the world.  In research terms they call this disorganized, but we’d like to describe it as squirting squid ink to confuse who we think is the predator and making a run for it. 

Wrapping up this 3-part series focusing specifically on adult attachment, Ann Kelley PhD and Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP discuss disorganized attachment, how it forms, how it appears in adult life, and how you can identify when you fall in a pocket of it to organize yourself internally and externally.  

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